Try not to beat yourself up about it and just use it to help keep things in perspective (how lucky u/ we all are to have lovely healthy babies). Note that once you confirm, this action cannot be undone. Basically the baby gate on the bedroom door failed and our 10 month old daughter fell down the stairs (14 steps). She has a bruise on her forehead and after a lot of initial crying she has been totally normal and happy all day. Entirely depends on the child. It really is absolutely terrifying! https://www.uptodate.com/contents/head-injury-in-children-and-adolescents-beyond-the-basics [Accessed May 2022], WHO. Their breathing may even stop for ten to twenty seconds at a time. So far he's completely fine and only cried for about 30 seconds. But he was totally fine after cuddles from mummy. I was carrying a laundry bag down the stairs and somehow lost my footing. You did what your supposed to do and had a baby gate etc. A Group Leader is a What to Expect community member who has been selected by our staff to help maintain a positive, supportive tone within a group. Your post will be hidden and deleted by moderators. Keep your child under adult supervision, away from ungated stairs or unguarded windows, and maintain their play area free of sharp edges, and other hazards. 2011. You can nurse or feed your baby or look at a book with your toddler to help distract them from the chill and discomfort. HELP!!! Combining these series produces 368 children who fell about 2-4 feet and had no or minor injuries (total of three skull fractures; one clavicle fracture). Took DD downstairs for bed and when I came out of her room I heard DS crying and knew something was wrong. what should i look out for? Babies (birth - 12 months) 6 month old fell off the bed : ( Babies (birth - 12 months) Sixteen percent in the minor fall group also had evidence of a torn frenulum, and another 16 percent had old fractures. She suffered a skull fracture. All rights reserved. Having this online community really helps right now. She was fine and shes 5 years old now. Read the article summaries about fatal falls. I'm ashamed of myself and sick to my stomach. I was carrying a laundry bag down the stairs and somehow lost my footing. I can imagine how you feel and I think I would feel the same. The greater the height of the fall, the more common it was to incur a skull fracture. ! Which is only funny because he would never push the baby. The #1 app for tracking pregnancy and baby growth. Help!!! He had put his teeth through his lip. I'm so glad you both are doing okay! The guy rear ended us and TOOK OFF! Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here). My baby fell down an entire flight of stairs this afternoon. So far he's completely fine and only cried for about 30 seconds. I'm very paranoid about it and I would feel SO guilty if anything happened to him. Combining these series produces 368 children who fell about 2-4 feet and had no or minor injuries (total of three skull fractures; one clavicle fracture). Falls accounted for 5.9 percent of pediatric trauma deaths. Pediatric Injuries Attributable to Falls From Windows in the United States in 19902008 Pediatrics. Claudia Boyd-Barrett is a longtime journalist based in Southern California and a proud, continually adapting mom of a teenager. Many of these accidents are preventable. We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. My fiance an I fell pregnant october of 2021 and had our sweet in July, we ended up moving where we are at currently because I was pregnant. Roshkow had slightly different findings: that the pattern of injury, including the presence of a head injury, did not relate to the height of the fall and that significant head injury was not uncommon after falls from heights >10 feet. Look for signs and if you are worried then it doesn't hurt to take him in to see someone. No hate please I feel horrific and can't stop crying. I let my baby fall out of the swing when he was like 2 months old. 2005-2023Everyday Health, Inc., a Ziff Davis company. A Group Owner is a member that has initiated the creation of a group to connect with other members to share their journey through the same pregnancy & baby stages. U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Just remember - you're human not perfect! Accidents happen and you definitely did the best thing calling for help immediately! Rivara (1993), Kim (2000), Warrington (2001), Johnson (2005), Pitone (2006), Thompson (2010) all reviewed children who suffered falls. I took my eyes off her for a second and it happened that fast. We believe you should always know the source of the information you're seeing. She seems okay but I am still shaking. We took her to the childrens hospital and they had to have her in for 6 hours until she was free from the signs of a concussion. We are so lucky. THANK GOD baby is okay. I had forgotten to close the basement door. Take him to Children's Accident and Emergency. The children in these series are older, which limits the applicability to infants. I called the pediatrician expecting to be told to go to the ER but they asked me a bunch of questions and said he sounds fine and just gave me some warning signs of things to watch for. The image of my baby landing at the bottom makes me nauseous. 2 year old fell and now won't put any weight on her leg, really clingy 8 month old, really getting me down :(, Help my 13 month old son has just had a fall down the stairs, i was anwering the door and thought i had shut the safety gate, i heard the most sickening loud thud x5 and presume it was his little head bouncing of them. Unfortunately accidents happen and there are bound to be more bumps and scrapes to come! The educational health content on What To Expect is reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts to be up-to-date and in line with the latest evidence-based medical information and accepted health guidelines, including the medically reviewed What to Expect books by Heidi Murkoff. Mama bear instincts kicked in for sure. Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. I am really careful with the gates now but these things do happen hun so don't beat yourself up! A brand new 2021 car we only had for 2 weeks. Oh, my LO has fallen off the bed a couple of times. Awe don't feel bad. My son fell off our bed last week, and I felt so bad! Leventhal (1993) found that it is common for children to suffer fractures from falls (60 percent of children in their study sustained a fracture from falls). Seven of the children fell from a swing, and 11 of the children fell from a horizontal surface, ladder or seesaw. I'm still shaking and feel SO HORRIbLE. In these series, 10 percent (Smith) and 15 percent (Chiaviello) of patients suffered skull fractures and 1 percent and 8 percent, respectively, had intracranial bleeds. He did not report if non-accidental trauma was considered and excluded. 9 month old screaming all hours at night!! https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/Pages/Safety-for-Your-Child-2-to-4-Years.aspx [Accessed May 2022], CDC. Find advice, support and good company (and some stuff just for fun). Older walkers may tip over more easily and harm your baby. Don't let the guilt ruin your special moments with your baby. Awww don't feel bad, things like this have happened to so many people! He found an incidence (based on California EPIC data) of 0.48 per million per year. Of course I felt like the worst mother on earth, Surprisingly he didn't even cry! https://www.uptodate.com/contents/prevention-of-falls-in-children [Accessed May 2022], UpToDate. Just remember, boys are tough and I'm sure he'll be getting himself into little bumps and bruises - probably many more to come. baby is okbut i do believe she bumped her head a little while i took most of the brunt bc i tried to hold her up!!! 1999-2022 Cincinnati Children's Hospital Medical Center. Moms, dads, partners, grandparents, birthing partners and more. If you child is crying, this is usually from pain or fright, and shouldn't last longer than 10 minutes. Head injuries. My heart stopped at that moment when I feel floor thud from her falling all over the stairs. My almost 8 month old started crawling last week and Ive been trying to be so careful about shutting the door to our basement but today I messed up and she ended up falling down a flight of stairs. Breastfeeding: the trick to a comfy latch. If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. Fractures side effects In a 2013 study of fractures caused by falls down stairs,. If not then I would take him just to get checked over. Ladies and Gentlemen, let me just tell you, I fell down the stairs with the baby and it was THE SINGLE MOST FRIGHTENING THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED IN MY LIFE! Group Leaders arent expected to spend any additional time in the community, and are not held to a set schedule. Read the article summaries about falls from beds. SO. American Academy of Pediatrics. The educational health content on What To Expect is reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts to be up-to-date and in line with the latest evidence-based medical information and accepted health guidelines, including the medically reviewed What to Expect books by Heidi Murkoff. 06/01/2007 23:32, ooooo goody, I have just broached the subject with dh and he seemed keen. Group Leaders communicate with staff moderators and escalate potential violations for review, but they dont moderate discussions. You're a great mother n *** happens sometimes. When it rains it pours, right? ok thanks so much im taking him now ill let you know how we get on x. We haven't had a problem with any of the others so I'm wondering if maybe we've fitted it wrong :/, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I also fell down the stairs on Saturday and hurt my tailbone pretty bad. It was totally my fault too because of where I set him. 2005-2023Everyday Health, Inc., a Ziff Davis company. (Beyond the Basicos). 20062023 BabyCenter, LLC, a Ziff Davis company. There was also one clavicular fracture, one radius / ulna fracture and one cervical spine fracture. I still feel bad about it sometimes but i just thank God, he's all right. Call 911 if your child experiences any of the following after a fall: Take your child to the emergency room or talk to their doctor immediately if you notice signs of any of the following: Call the doctor if your child has a headache for more than 24 hours after a bump to the head. It's a long way down (8 steps) and in his walker it'd sure do some serious harm. I have to get an MRI tomorrow Im 14w6d and just fell down a flight of stairs. It can happen to anyone- just try to be a major stickler on always shutting the gate/door. Progressively became stronger and shorter duration, crazy poops too, but after a shower and just relaxing at home things slowed down around 11:30-12pm. Please whitelist our site to get all the best deals and offers from our partners. I know you can't help feeling guilty but accidents happen hon, try not to beat yourself up about it. Fallschildren. Yup, my older son has fallen down the stairs twice, one was pretty recent too. My heart sank. 07/01/2023 21:31. 3 week old choking on his saliva when put down. I left my baby to play in the kitchen for less than a minute while I ran to check something in the living room. Our poor pediatrician had to listen to me crying on the phone and remind me I was a good mom and accidents happen. It could have been so much worse. and we had to go to casualty but he was fine! we literally just brought him home from the NICU. She is 8 months and thriving and hitting her milestones. And, as everyone said, little ones bounce quite well so I'm sure she'll be ok. I'm slowly getting to grips with the sickly abreviations on here but that one is a mystery. ohhh i know how you feel, my little one fell down from stairs as well and even cut his head on door hinge. Joffe also noted that there was no correlation between severity of injury and number of steps fallen down. 1997-2023 BabyCenter, LLC, a Ziff Davis company. Reiber (1993) reports on a smaller series of patients who suffered a fatal head injury with the history of a fall. The series is divided into two groups: those with a history of a minor fall (<5-6 feet) and those with a history of a major fall (>10 feet). I now know never ever to leave him alone for any amount of time, not even for a few seconds. Didnt happen to me but my coworkers daughter. Your baby knows you love her. Barlow (1983) and Roshkow (1990) both studied falls from heights, again in older patients. Iv definitely been feeling the quilt and shame all day today also . What a shame! You have to forgive yourself n move on. I had an accident with my son in the buggy. Don't feel bad! To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. Falls prevention tips. 2019. Thirty-two percent in the minor fall group were also found to have retinal hemorrhages, axonal injury or both. Has this ever happened to any other mothers out there? This educational content is not medical or diagnostic advice. She will be fine, just remember it wasn't your fault, things happen like this all the time xxx, Poor baby! i dont have a car omg is it that dangerous. Docherty (2010) also evaluated children who fell down stairs. Had a bad bruise in almost the exact same place and a sore, sore butt/hip on the same side. https://www.cdc.gov/HomeandRecreationalSafety/Falls/children.html [Accessed May 2022], Committee on Injury and Poison Prevention. You'll want to make sure that your child: Falls can be serious, but the good news is that baby and toddler bones are soft, so they don't fracture as easily as those of an older child. Safety for your child: 1 to 2 years. Both studies noted that single injuries to the head or extremities predominate. Essentially he was in my left arm so I instinctively turned to my ride side to absorb the impact. He screamed for a constant 10 mins ans i cant see no signs of a bump and hes now playing happily. Everything was ok aside from the fracture (no bleed); no seizures. AAP: 2022. My baby fell down an entire flight of stairs this afternoon. Sending you love. What to Expect supports Group Black and its mission to increase greater diversity in media voices and media ownership. Xx, Kids that age seem to be made of rubber and just bounce i remember one of mine at about 10 or 11 months old falling off the sofa were she was lieing having her nap she smacked her head on the table leg and just got up as though nothinhg had happened this was all in the time it took to go to the loo, No it was an Argos gate! Find advice, support and good company (and some stuff just for fun). My 13 month old fell down our full flight of stairs a couple of hours ago : ( I had just popped downstairs with her to get cleaning things as she'd been sick on the carpet (before the fall) and then we came back upstairs and I stupidly left the stair gate open then had my head down while I cleaned the sick. Please whitelist our site to get all the best deals and offers from our partners. Whatever you are going through, you are not alone. Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. Learn more about, 7 Things I Wish I Had Known About Postpartum Depression, How Infertility and Depression Made Me Reconsider My Parenting Dream. It caught on a stone and I went flying over the pram. https://www.safekids.org/tip/falls-prevention-tips [Accessed May 2022], UpToDate. I immediately thought the worst, I could not stop apologizing to her, I swore she was getting black eyes instantly, she seemed extra sleepy after that, I called her pediatrician right away and rushed her in to have her checked out, thankfully she was okay. Not falling, but my husband and I and baby were in our first accident with baby on Tuesday. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy and I hope nothing like it happens again for a LONG time! But everyone has been so nice saying these things happen. We arent perfect. Group Leaders communicate with staff moderators and escalate potential violations for review, but they dont moderate discussions. In those few seconds he crawled all of the way out of his room, across the playroom and apparently dove face first down the stairs. If they're upset, calmly comfort them and encourage them to get back on their feet. I wouldve much rather I hurt myself and was able to spare him. Urgent help! We only hit the last three hard. Create an account or log in to participate. If they fell on their head and have anything more than a minor bump - or if your child isn't acting normally - call their doctor immediately or take them to the emergency room. Head Injury. 2 nights ago I had a really bad headache so went for a sleep while DH fed the children. He was fine after 30 seconds of crying, but I felt (and feel) AWFUL. In this study, no child sustained a significant intracranial injury from a short vertical fall. I ran up the stairs and there he was lying on the floor. My mom said I was afraid of our stairs for a while but was fine with anyone else's stairs. Falls. We literally preach safety all of the time. Trust me you'll get over it soon but you'll be extra careful in future. Most falls will not cause serious injury. This child is made of steal, Honestly don't feel guilty, accidents happen with babies and toddlers and it sadly probably won't be the last time. You may also see your baby gasping for air. Group Black's collective includes Essence, The Shade Room and Naturally Curly. Just make sure you check the gate because that's scary!! I landed on my right knee and twisted to land on my back instead of her. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/tips-tools/symptom-checker/Pages/symptomviewer.aspx?symptom=Head+Injury [Accessed May 2022], AAP. She is okay. It was heart breaking! Safety for your child: 2 to 4 years. Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines. Williams (1991) reports on 106 children who fell from a height of less than 10 feet and were witnessed by a non-caretaker. The first-time mum who goes by the name. Helfer (1977), Nimityungskul (1987) and Lyons (1993) each performed similar studies of children falling from beds / cribs, etc., while in the hospital. Went for a walk & Hey mamas. Accidents happen and it doesn't make you a bad mum! Please select a reason for escalating this post to the WTE moderators: Connect with our community members by starting a discussion. What Should I Do If My Toddler Hits Her Head? Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines. :) cheer up! American Academy of Pediatrics. Please whitelist our site to get all the best deals and offers from our partners. When it rains it pours, right? This educational content is not medical or diagnostic advice. We respect everyones right to express their thoughts and opinions as long as they remain respectful of other community members, and meet What to Expects Terms of Use. 2022. in the moment I could've murdered my husband. It happens and what youre feeling is valid. Still, falls can be serious and are a leading cause of death and injury in children under age 5. I was just getting out of the shower and I heard a bunch of banging noises I thought it was a dresser or something falling I ran out of the bathroom in my towel freaking out because my sister was watching my one year old daughter while I was showering it turns out it was my daughter falling down the stairs (my sister thought for sure the baby gate was closed but unfortunately it wasnt. Be sure to let us know if you have any helpful tips. I basically slid down on my knee super hard and instantly held my arm around him to keep him from getting hurt. Our stairs for a long way down ( 8 steps ) and in his walker 'd. 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